
It’s been a while since I wrote a non-work related topic. Last time, I wrote about the unique kindness I experienced in Japan (see The Butterfly effect of kindness). This time, I want to write about a dilemma that I’ve been thinking about for a while.
When I reflect on my life so far, whenever I had some progress (learning a new skill, making new lasting connections, changing to a new job, losing weight), it was always due to consistency in my life. I was not traveling, I was not thinking about where to go, what to do, where to eat, how to get from point A to point B. I was in my familiar environment with a consistent (and maybe boring) routine where the basics of my life were in place. As a result, I had time, got bored, and started exploring. This consistency fueled boredom allowed me to explore an aspect of life that I wasn’t happy about and I put the time and energy into improving it.
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