
It’s been a while since I wrote a non-work related topic. Last time, I wrote
about the unique kindness I experienced in Japan (see The Butterfly effect of
kindness). This time, I
want to write about a dilemma that I’ve been thinking about for a while.
When I reflect on my life so far, whenever I had some progress (learning a new
skill, making new lasting connections, changing to a new job, losing weight), it
was always due to consistency in my life. I was not traveling, I was not
thinking about where to go, what to do, where to eat, how to get from point A to
point B. I was in my familiar environment with a consistent (and maybe boring)
routine where the basics of my life were in place. As a result, I had time, got
bored, and started exploring. This consistency fueled boredom allowed me to
explore an aspect of life that I wasn’t happy about and I put the time and
energy into improving it.
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